Fed Up from a lack of love

I feel incomplete if I don't have support from people, anyone else with me? It's not good to live life alone but have I missed the train that has abandoned the daily or at least weekly desire to truly spend time with and check in with a person, a friend? If our culture has become so individualized we only hang out with people when is convenient for us or when we feel like "socializing," that's not really a culture I want to be part of. Where is real community? Where is commitment that is part of real friendship? Where has that intimacy and that love gone? Where are the responses when I just check in to ask how you are? Do you think nobody is genuine anymore? I know we live in a world of computers, but it's still only love that can reboot us. I didn't imagine it would be radical to care about people... but I've learned it's radical to think they would care and invest likewise... excuse my venting but I don't do it often.